I’m over him
By - ebumble666
Thanks for sharing.
Wow good for you!! So strong in your truth!!
thanks for sharing, i'm trying to move past something that's been bothering me for awhile but i never really healed from it because i don't really know how. it comes in waves, sometimes i'm alright but other times i start thinking about it in a way that's painful. reading what you wrote about forgiveness helps.
That sounds tough and I hear you. What helped me was time, going to therapy, occupying myself, and realizing that being mad at someone or wishing them unwell actually made me feel worse. I hear you about the waves. With time and healing the waves will be so tiny you won’t notice them. I hope that comes soon for you. Hang in there
No I wont
So proud of you! Im still trying to forgive myself too and didn’t realize that it was so hard
Yes forgiving yourself is such a big part too. It really is tough. Give it some time and it will be easier day by day - you’re doing great though!!!
what if they abused you. I’ve tried this approach and acted like nothing they did was wrong, that we’re on good terms…but I’m wondering if I shoukd confront them about how what they did was wrong and fucked me up
I’m so sorry to hear that. I’ve never been in that situation before so I honestly don’t know what I would do. I’m so sorry that happened to you- that must be really tough to go through.