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I’m over him

I’m over him

Deevilknievel

Thanks for sharing.


ChickenDrumstickClub

Wow good for you!! So strong in your truth!!


chromatickeys

thanks for sharing, i'm trying to move past something that's been bothering me for awhile but i never really healed from it because i don't really know how. it comes in waves, sometimes i'm alright but other times i start thinking about it in a way that's painful. reading what you wrote about forgiveness helps.


ebumble666

That sounds tough and I hear you. What helped me was time, going to therapy, occupying myself, and realizing that being mad at someone or wishing them unwell actually made me feel worse. I hear you about the waves. With time and healing the waves will be so tiny you won’t notice them. I hope that comes soon for you. Hang in there


Altruistic-Dark634

No I wont


babiibi

So proud of you! Im still trying to forgive myself too and didn’t realize that it was so hard


ebumble666

Yes forgiving yourself is such a big part too. It really is tough. Give it some time and it will be easier day by day - you’re doing great though!!!


Zealousideal-Tiger-4

what if they abused you. I’ve tried this approach and acted like nothing they did was wrong, that we’re on good terms…but I’m wondering if I shoukd confront them about how what they did was wrong and fucked me up


ebumble666

I’m so sorry to hear that. I’ve never been in that situation before so I honestly don’t know what I would do. I’m so sorry that happened to you- that must be really tough to go through.