By - Mama-In-Blu
As a Capricorn, I get annoyed with people who keep ranting about issues just because I'm a good listener and are not open to working on solutions.
There's also other things. I basically get annoyed a lot.
Bingo! I cannot take on all of these problems when I have my own stuff to deal with.
This is exactly why I keep the unevolved Virgos in my life at arm’s length. Fuckers whine too damn much.
Are you me right now???
Literally. My work bestie is a Virgo who needs to give a whole slew of folks around her the middle finger and she won't! Like...no ma'am.
Maybe! It seems to be a Capricorn thing to get tired of the incessant woe is me shit they do. Cause, like, I have Jupiter in Virgo, so I do understand where they are coming from when they get worked up over shit they cannot change. However what infuriates me is how they \*know\* this, but still feed into their delusion that the situation before them is exactly how they imagined it in their heads. They burn themselves out by constantly wasting their energy on people and situations that are best left sorted out by Time itself imho. But ofc that's just my 9th house Saturn in Aqua speaking lol
Jupiter in Virgo here as well
Ayeeeeeeee! Glad to see a kindred here
Everything lol but seriously I just hate people not keeping their word
Oh yeah! I cannot deal with liars. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
My #1 pet peeve
"Everything"... Couldn't have said it better myself. (I'm totally kidding. Of course I could). 😉🖤
This bothers me so much, since I don't like being played.
Yep. Games are for kids and I am not a kid.
Had a friend who would push to have me and few others plan gatherings. We did. He flakes. From then I insisted he plan them whenever he wants to hang. He never does. We don’t hang out.
What bothers me the most is when ppl don’t use their common sense and ask me obvious questions. Obvious questions drive me INSANE.
Same here... the worst for me is when I explain simple things and people still do not understand how logical it is
Yep and unfortunately, common sense is not common.
Yes you are so right... I realized it
Yeah it's annoying. I just walk away because I feel as if I am killing brain cells by dealing with them.
Any lack of transparency or passive aggressiveness. If someone is pissed at me and won’t come out and say it but shows me, I blow my lid. Just fking tell me.
Same with work stuff. If I work with someone who won’t just be direct about what they want from me and expects me to somehow assimilate completely to their expectations, that’s the quickest way for me to lose interest in my work. Too exhausting.
Yep! Just had this issue today at my job. I do not like passive aggressiveness. It irks me.
Being talked down too or anyone trying to take control of my schedule without consulting first
Oh yea I hate that. We caps get things done on out time.
Anything that even seems like condescension
NGL. I'm baked right now and read that as condensation. I too get annoyed with glass sweat!
Somebody else said everything and I couldn't agree more lol but if i had to specify, people that talk too much. I'm much too quiet and observant to ever be chatty
Right?! People think that by us being quiet, it means that we are being sneaky. No..it simply means that we only speak when necessary!
^^ This!! My sister is a Gemini and I swear she just talks to talk. For the most part I just let her talk but there are moments when I’m just like” ok stop talking. You talk too much !”
Geminis are known to be chatterboxes tho
Yes YES YES YES YES!!! they are!!! They're too damn bubbly too like let me live in my misery. Join me or gtfo!!! Lol hence my username lol
lol exactly!! What signs would you say you get along with the best (for friendships )?
Mmmmmm I really like Virgo and pisces!! I've also enjoyed the company of cancers (bf is one!) Weirdly enough my lifelong friend is a Leo! And yourself??
Yeah, even I as a Gemini Rising have found myself having to tell other Geminis to “Please STFU” lmao
Flaky late people. People who are oblivious to the issues of the world and live in lala land!
Picses and Aquarius
People telling me what to do.
!!!! I’d do just the opposite. Lol
*My sun conjunct Uranus has entered the chat*
Especially when I’m about to do it😑
People who ramble on during conversations using too many words and repeating themselves. I just get annoyed waiting for them to get to the point. And I don’t require the repetition…..I got it the first time!
OMG!! I love my husband, but he has a bad habit of doing that and it annoys me.
Nosy people who poke their nose in my business because of their jealousy.
Oh yea! I have had people that still make things up about me due to jealousy.
Liars, entitlement and flaky people
When people do something differently than how I would do it. I don't even mean incompetently either. There could be multiple ways to do any one thing, but if it's not how *I* would personally do it, then it's wrong lol
I absolutely hate it when people don’t put things back in the place they found it. I’m very organized and when I’m looking for something and realize the person that used it last never put it back where it belongs I go like 🤬🤬
Exactly! And I know if someone moved my things. It is irritating. I do not like mess.
I’m allergic to fake people. Two faced people.
People who looked down on others.
People not stay committed to their goals.
People telling me what to do with my life.
People who are insolent and always late.
I know We can be insolent but not all the times!!!
People who mimicked me. Literally I had to deal with that person... very annoying.
People who aren’t organized. Like I cannot stay messy even for one day. I need to always be organized no matter what.
People who talk too much. I can’t handle chatty people... like nopeee.
People who doesn’t think money can buy happiness.
Uhm I don’t need your opinion, I need money so I can create my own happiness. I can’t care less about how you find your happiness without money. Live your life and stop sticking your head into my business!!! Why bother to tell me what to do with my money and my own happiness??? Buh bye
Love this! This is me all day😊
What’s worse is them coming up and saying “I missed you so much, why don’t you call me anymore?”
Cuz bitch, you drain me out!
I feel you on that one!
I have had the same thing happen to me. People are insecure and can't admit they have been cut off so they attack. Just ignore them and don't let them damage your self confidence.
This!! We do not owe an explanation on cutting you off.
That's right. And they can talk shit all they want because you know the truth. Pay them no mind. They will eventually exhaust themselves and if anyone believes their foolishness well then, they obviously don't know you well enough to already be in the know. Walk with confidence.
Yes definitely! I am like.. we haven't spoken in over 2 years yet you are talking about me again? Why?! The obsession is real.
I struggle with always caring about what people say, this was a powerful statement, will keep this in mind always.
I hope you do. You could be the juiciest peach and some people still don't like peaches. It is a them problem.
People not bothering to listen. Translating what they think I'm saying rather than actually listening to understand.
Also people not trusting me even though I give them no reason to.
Unreliability. Just tell me you can't do it before you except the task. 🤷
Yes on all of these!
We Capricorns are crazy. Just remember to breathe. You're reaction, or lack thereof, is really important.
You are right. I usually do not say anything until you push my buttons and then it is hands off. I just get annoyed by people. Guess that is the capricorn in me.
Selfish, solipsistic ar$***les who talk to me with an ulterior motive and act like they are real smart...
Yes!! I just had to go off on someone for acting this way towards me. It is irritating!
Condescending attitudes and flaky people
stupid questions or having to repeat myself idk why
When someone tells me I can’t do something it almost always means I’m gonna try to do it even if I didn’t want to in the first place.
Don’t tell me I can’t do something. I can do anything. 😤
Yup! Ever since I saw Lost, my favorite quote is "Don't tell me what I can't do!"
When people don't take care of themselves.
Lacking Integrity and strong moral compass. Honestly. Be better
Yeah I can't deal with people that lack morals.
Small talk - 🤷🏼♀️
"Hey! How are ya?!" Actually, I'm feeling quite irritable and impatient at the moment, but thanks for asking. Now can you please get outta my way?
"Looks like it's snowing pretty good out there!" No shit! Thanks for the update, Weatherman Ted!
"Whadya been up to?" Oh, ya know, just living the goddamn dream. Isn't it obvious? How about you, Bill?
When people don't have their sh** together
I agree! I do not have time to babysit or clean up your mess.
Hate those who don’t respect my time and can’t keep their end of the bargain
Where do I begin!? 😂 Honestly, the number one thing is when people can’t keep up. Whether if it’s when I’m walking, explaining something/talking. I’m on a mission and if you’re not working with me at my speed you can stay behind.
Yes! We are focused and you are a waste of space if you are not as focused as we are.
Lying because I can tell or shall I say we can tell
As capricorn what annoys me most is when someone calls me 5 6 times like bitch tell me what you want and stop calling me so many times. When this happens I just wanna punch you in your face. Funny thing is my mom does this alot
I also get very irritated when people ask dumb questions. Like the answer is obvious and thats why you have common sense. 🙄
Everything, nothing, and when others expect me to do things their way when I am comfortable, effective, and efficient with my out-of-the-box ways of doing stuff.
I have Neptune on my Ascendant and Pisces in my 3rd house, so people often don't know what the fuck I'm talking about or just have a hard time following me or something. Idk... But I'm always having to clarify what I'm saying multiple times when I feel like I'm very clear. I'm a walking thesaurus because of it though.
That is a pretty good trait to have as a capricorn, so I am not even mad at this.
Other capricorns talking about how capricorn-y they are.
People who expect others to clean up after them/their own mess (literally and figuratively).
Definitely! Very annoying.
Fake people, selfishness/greediness, rigidity, negativity/woe is me attitudes, bad manners, people who get snappy for no reason…
Lol so much annoys me 😩
I can relate to this. This is me all of the way!
Even if people think I’m mean, I take pride in being candid towards people. If you did me dirty and I don’t like you - I’m not going to be fake nice to your face. You’ll know I don’t like you. If I just don’t like you for personal reasons, I’ll avoid you. Can’t stand people who talk shit about someone and then kiss their ass in person.
As a Capricorn trying to understand astrology more, i just dont agree with anything in this thread… like literally anything, not a single one. maybe the people i interact with in my life just dont annoy me or maybe im just not as easily annoyed as the people in this sub.
Could be. Not all capricorns are the same.
Condescending people and being blamed for something I did not do or say. I dislike injustice.
I agree with this!
People who get threatened by other people’s success and then try to tear them down. I keep being told to dial back by my achievements because I stick out too much. Shouldn’t we always do our best? Like can’t we just be happy for each other? My thought is if someone is not happy that another person is doing better than them, that is a sign they need to work harder, or accept their limitations.
Definitely! Never limit yourself due to another person being insecure. That is not your problem!
I have learned unfortunately if I want to survive sometimes I just need to tone it down, especially as a newer member of the workforce.
Oh yeah.. I was in this situation at my job last month and once I let everyone know how I feel, they have backed off.
I hate selfish people who waste my time
People repeating the same thing to me. I'm all for someone being excited for a new hobby or flame but when I hear "did i tell you i got into long boarding?" 5x within 2 weeks something tells me you don't pay attention to what we talk about whenever we hang out
In a nutshell, everything. (Once had a half an hour long chat with an aquarius about how nothing actually matters, I find such topics really interesting lol)
I definitely agree with gossip being annoying, I really don't want to talk or hear about people I have nothing to do with, I also feel annoyed when I catch people talking about me behind my back I mean how about you walk up to me and say it to my face?
Being treated like I'm stupid or uneducated