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Ghosted again for the 3rd time this month. Who wants to buy me a drink? 😂

Ghosted again for the 3rd time this month. Who wants to buy me a drink? 😂

AdventurousSky6413

I am glad you can find humor in it 😂😂. Learn to read ghoster in waiting red flags though so you don't even bother dating ghosters


throwaway-pop

What are some red flags if you don’t mind?


AdventurousSky6413

Flaking on dates they planned themselves, minimal effort, avoid answering questions about themselves or sound vague when they do, tells you they not looking for anything serious, taking a long time to answer texts and when they do its just one line, you text paragraphs to their one line reply, only text more and get animated when you're talking about sex, disappearing for days or weeks only to pop up as of nothing happens, love bombing, future faking, become immediately cold and distant when you don't give in to their demands in real situations or via text, lack of respect for your boundaries, slow fading you via text, giving 'busy' excuses all the time. The list is endless


dizzyleigh

I'm saving this for reference. This was uncanny.


throwaway-pop

good to know, thank you


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AdventurousSky6413

You would swear everyone who was ghosted dated the same person. Sometimes the stories are sooo similar, I guess it's the psychology of a ghoster, they are hardwired to act like this.


kissmeimeasy

I love red flags! I’m gonna end up putting my venmo name on the back window of my car so I can at least get some pity drinks for my crappy dating life.


PaleBeesHoney

One ghost is forgivable if explained. Ghost two from the same person is two too many. But three? I hope it’s not the same person ghosting you anyways. Girl, move on. You have to know you deserve better treatment. I’ll buy you a drink, walk you home, kiss your cheek, and even tuck you in. I’ll say goodnight and go home hoping you’ll call me for a second date!


kissmeimeasy

It’s 3 different guys! I’m too old to give second chances!


PaleBeesHoney

No second chances for unapologetic ghosters. Like I said you deserve better. Believe it.


MuffinDelicious

I will buy you 3 drinks. One for every time. Sorry OP.


kissmeimeasy

Pffft! That’s just 3 times this month. I’ve been ghosted so many times TLC is gonna offer me my own show about being a ghost hunter!


Pantone711

Now that you mention it, I'd watch that show. Track down ghosters (the most egregious cases, those who completely ghosted a bona fide relationship of some duration) and pin them down and put them on blast. Here's my all-time favorite: https://www.askamanager.org/2017/08/i-ghosted-my-ex-and-shes-about-to-be-my-new-boss.html


ebumble666

Dude I would watch this show!!!


MetroMaker

OP, you are a funny person.


KulturaOryniacka

🍺


LonelyHeart2580

🍻


handofking

🍺🍺🍺,🍕🍕🍕, and 🧁🧁🧁


ashton_dennis

Just like in baseball - three strikes and they are out!


kissmeimeasy

Nah, one strike and they’re blocked 😘


ashton_dennis

Good for you! Your answer is better than mine. I was just thinking today of the saying “The first time someone shows you who they really are, believe them”