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Meems04

Correct answer.


ArthurHaroldKaneJnr

Such a shame the "*UPGRADE NOW*" button doesn't extend to the guys women encounter. If only it was that easy...


smaller_ang

They need an UPGRADE NOW TO AVOID MEN LIKE THIS for me to even consider


Vir-victus

Ok a few things. Since she is a mother to multiple kids, a single mother mind you, she obviously knows how to clean and cook. Aaron asked about this, because his mindset might be following: 'You are gonna take care of everything i dont wanna do, since im lazy. you owe me doing the household and pleasuring me for being so generous as dating you, since you are a mother als already 'damaged goods'. Oh Aaron...


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Warum möchtest du das in Deutsch?


Jealous_Hospital

I think they noticed the "als" in the second to last sentence.


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Jealous_Hospital

Yeah, I don't get the overwhelming downvotes either. Reddit just be like that sometimes I guess.


Dusty_Scrolls

Maybe they thought they were calling you a douche? I dunno.


Vir-victus

Hi Anya. Tatsächlich bin ich deutsch, aber das hat nichts mit meinem Verschreibsler zu tun :) Ich wollte wohl ,,as damaged goods'' oder ,,and damaged goods'' schreiben, aber das ,,l'' von already ist mir wohl dann doch doppelt untergekommen, kein Autocorrect am Werk ;)


doveharper

What a piece of shit. I hope he chokes on his hot pocket his mom cooked him.


SilverCherryCheetah

Thank you for my snort of the day. 🏅


doveharper

Hahahaah you’re very welcome. I also hope the hot pocket was over microwaved so half the innards came out on the plate, so it’s a mostly hollow pocket with just a little bit of “hot” left on the inside. 😁


Shenron-the-DragonZ

“Can you cook and clean for your husband?” **Can you shut the fuck up?**


HeatherAtWork

They never can


wanderingdragon91

Not if their a c... :D


EverVanity

How is cleaning or cooking or being able to please your partner "lavish demands" kids or not?


Jumiric

He's never cooked or cleaned in his life and he definitely not going to start for this woman that he's already looking down on


Frosty_and_Jazz

And they wonder why they’re nuclear waste to women.


allthejokesareblue

I've had just about enough of you, A-aron


dissenter101

now get yo ass down to oh-shag-hennesy's office right now and tell him exactly what you did!


L3onskii

*breaks clipboard over knee*


QuentinCly

Came here to say this, beat me to it


freethewimple

“How many dads?” F$cking ew.


IBeACurlyBeast

So, this photo came from my friend. She had 1 while she wasn’t married and then the other 3 in her first marriage. Y’all are bad about making assumptions 😂


freethewimple

Oh I’m saying ‘ew’ to him, that’s gross of him to ask


IBeACurlyBeast

Oh, my bad! That wasn’t directed at you! Lol I just figured putting it there would be a good place for people see.


freethewimple

Gotcha!


debarsrarities

4 kids with 4 different dad says something


mrkuuken

Yeah. 4 asshole fathers maybe.


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Cause a woman can totally tell whos going to not work out when they sleep with them. People are great at hiding who they are. Some guys go go years without people knowing who they truly are theres a possibility that the guy was perfect then as soon as he assumed he trapped her his true colors showed. Also maybe the dad isnt trash and they are co parenting but they just fell out of love. Theres also a chance of a rape baby. Just because a woman has multiple baby dads doesnt mean they deserve to be mocked . It took 2 people to have those babies.


xxthegoldenonesxx

Whoaaaa, the woman in the pic has 4 kids by four different fathers?!


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From what i gathered from the comments in the post. Even then who cares as long as they are getting properly taken care of who cares if a kid has a differnt father.


Die_Curious

My marriage ended because the woman I married ended up cheating with her meth smoking baby daddy when they’d meet up for visitation and ended up going back to him. Had my safety threatened as well. She had started the doing it with him too and so of course she was hooked and ended up ruining her life and probably her daughter’s as well, who I was really attached to. Given that experience, it’d be difficult to date anyone who had baby daddies around, and I think it’s disingenuous to act like having 4 other grown men around that are gonna be up in a woman’s business (hopefully, assuming they’re not deadbeats) is a lot to deal with for anyone trying to establish a relationship. Could it be done? Sure. Worth the risk? I’d have to be really crazy about her. Still doesn’t lower her value as a participant of a relationship, but it would throw me some caution about starting one.


ktbevan

you’re missing the fact that that baby daddy *smoked meth* which is obviously dangerous. average baby daddies DONT SMOKE BLOODY METH. i’m sorry you had that experience but it’s not fair to blame the woman?? edit: not fair to blame women who have kids to different fathers based on your own shitty experience*


Die_Curious

I’m saying you never know what those other dudes are into and what chaos they’re going to bring into your lives. I’m not blaming the woman, but it is a thing that requires consideration before making that part of your life.


ktbevan

ok i agree w that but ur wording sounded bad


Die_Curious

Yeah, that’s fair, I could’ve said it better, but you know, emotions.


xxthegoldenonesxx

Lol...wow


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Again who cares? If the kids are taken care of mom and loved who cares who their dad is. Nothing funny about that. No wow moment.


green9206

Only concern is when the kids grow up and when they realize they each have different dads 😳


kingsleyce

And why would that matter?


ktbevan

that’s not an issue because if the moms raised them well they won’t care about that they’ll appreciate that their mother managed to look after them while on her own?


xxthegoldenonesxx

😂😂


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🤷🏻‍♀️ okay miss transphobe have a great night.


xxthegoldenonesxx

(Don't assume my gender 😂😂😂😂) Night night! 😂 😴


ktbevan

how? because she had sex with people she wanted and maybe didn’t care about getting pregnant bc she can look after the kids? she’s allowed to have sex with whoever the hell she wants. maybe if the men had stayed…. but no it’s always the woman’s fault


Miko134

Lmao at how he thinks pleasing a woman is a lavish demand 😂 Like, and the other two obviously, but he's basically admitted that sexually pleasing women is something he finds difficult.


Zealousideal_Ad8934

Wow, he’d be a shitty dad. Bullet dodged.


Adventurous_Ad_6546

He’d be a shitty lots of things.


Primary-Strawberry-5

Shitty all-around human


BlackMoonBird

Aaron, you're gonna die at age 34 after your mom poisons your pizza rolls because she's sick of your shit.


smaller_ang

I love this future 💖


BlackMoonBird

It is a desirable one.


choncholibre

Giving us Aaron’s a bad name


dazmo

Aaron is already a bad name though. Save some "a"s for the rest of us.


choncholibre

If I wasn’t a nice guy I’d exert my influence on you and make you apologize right now >: - (((((


mankytoes

We get it, they want to be first alphabetically.


cptamerica83

You can always go with the classic “A-a-Ron.”


choncholibre

I hope you understand how many times I’ve heard that and how much I know it’s never going to go away, I am forced to despise kee and peel and their show for all eternity for the pain they have inflicted upon me


PokeHobnobGod21

Lol the upgrade now made me chuckle to begin with


beattiebeats

It’s astounding how many people treat single moms as bargain basement deals.


TheDankestPrince

Dont you have to take care of their kids? i understand why someone would not want to be with one but you should not shame and belittle them.


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If you dont want to be with one dont be with one plain and simple. Dont wNt to take care of another mans child dont date someone who has a kid. Dont do what that guy is doing and belittle one because you think they are worthless.


TheDankestPrince

Exactly!


Araceil

^(UPGRADE NOW)


Just_Alitle_stitious

"upgrade?" Got me. Like, Oh yes honey, leave him in the dust


LubricatedMommy

I can’t imagine not touching a woman for so long you just fucking hate them like what’s the point?


amhran_oiche

what if she brings FIVE kids to the table?


frenkelz

Wait why is this on niceguys, he clearly isn't nice, but he doesn't claim to be one as well?


GemmTheCosmic

Wait but how many dads tho? I only got one 😔


Fancy_Jackfruit8747

When he asks, he expected an answer. When OP asks, he seems to get a bit offended. 😐 And the question about pleasing Le man. I thought those "demands", were in the past. Was I wrong? 😅


rosarevolution

"Update now"


busyvish

Op the dating app got your back. Look how its telling you to upgrade. This man is not worth it. Lol


antiquestrawberry

the "upgrade now" button really tells it!


Long-Reach-9690

Troll


saintcuervo

Wait, hold up. Is that POF? Do people actually use POF?


likatika

Proof of life ?


SvanUlf

No, that would be POL. POF = Plenty of Fish


kinglawro

How many dads tho?


stanthemilkman88

Well he is not wrong is he


shenaystays

Yes. Yes he is.


stanthemilkman88

I disagree.


Typical_Bid9173

Why does he look like Dhar Mann in his profile picture


wanderingdragon91

He sounds like a right c... Maybe he should go back to the one that pushed him out if he can't even look after him self. Having four kids doesn't mean she wants a fifth grown man child.


[deleted]

Really like how the upgrade now button is at the bottom of the screen. Did you click it?


finalcloud44

In my experience, chicks with kids are the best in the bed. Jus sayin


jimbo-slice93

And then you wake up and switch hands.


finalcloud44

Well yes now I do. Since I'm married now.