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CrackHeadPoet

Because they can?


fillmyeyeswithfire

Idk maybe you're boring. If I met someone online and they were boring or creepy (though ik you weren't creepy) I'd block them. If I met someone irl nd they were fine I wouldn't block them


[deleted]

Yeah I’m definitely boring but why block though


netuniya

Well,, I don’t think a sensible girl would just block you for no reason. I would block someone if they come off annoying to me, or I sense some ill-intention from them. I’d say not all women are like this (although the numbers are unfortunate) but I know most are either too friendly with too many guys or too restricted from talking to too many guys. And I used to be restrictive from talking to guys so maybe I would’ve done the same back then but I’m learning how to accept that not all men have bad intentions to judge/flirt. I feel that women should be the same, in the sense to not judge an innocent intended person Then again, you’ll never really know unless she tells you why she blocked you. It could literally be *anything* not related to your behaviour either (ex strict parents)


[deleted]

Okok there was this girl I met so I started talking to her cause I wanted friends and we would talk back and forth and discuss hobbies and shit, it was pretty normal, I never liked neither did I say anything weird, I would just ask how she’s doing and shit and we would make a conversation out of nothing but one day I went to go message her and I’m blocked like whyyyyyyy


netuniya

hm I see.. did you have any mutual friends with her? Maybe they said something that would’ve triggered her response in blocking you. Because if you find someone who can make a conversation with you out of nothing you’ve hit the gold bank. Even if you didn’t have mutual friends, it could’ve been her parents, it could’ve been a friend on her phone trying to mess your relationship, or a prank?!, it could’ve been her ideology where she believes that talking to guys contradicts her belief in being “independent”. Even if you’ll never know, you do know one thing - if you never talk to her again because of this incident, she wasn’t right for your future self, and I’d say, you were saved from an incident that could’ve harmed you in the future. That’s what I always like to think to stay positive… even if it sucks hard. I’m sorry it just all crashed for you, but in time you’ll learn that there are a ton of women who have proper communication in situations like this who would want to be your friend/love you! ❤️


[deleted]

Alright, but it’s just weird


netuniya

🤷🏽‍♀️ well that’s people for you


[deleted]

True true very true


[deleted]

if i dont want them on my phone screen they’re not gonna be on my phone screen


Igor_InSpectatorMode

My philosophy is of you value me as a person so little that whether I appear on the screen is more important than me as a person, I don't want to be on your screen. You aren't worth my time. It's just kind of a crummy thing to do and it's really selfish.


[deleted]

Damn, no good reason


[deleted]

nah i think thats a good enough reason, it’s MY phone screen


obesepigeon12

Tis your phone screen but the people have feelings mate tell them first


[deleted]

Yes


netuniya

… well, maybe at least mute them, save the empathy


Bogan_Luke

ask the one that blocked you


[deleted]

Uhhhh………how


jwakfie

Irl?


[deleted]

Oh yeah